All About Shelby

When I first signed up to do this challenge, I thought it was going to be super easy and have no effect on me. Honestly, I was completely wrong on both accounts. Doing this challenge changed something in me, and it was definitely not as easy as I had anticipated. When I started, I had lots of dresses so I had a lot to choose from. However, I mostly gravitated towards the ones that were longer or had sleeves. Because of course, I hate my legs and my arms. WHO DOESN'T right? Well shit, after 10 days in I knew that I would have to slowly gravitate towards my shorter dresses, some that didn't have sleeves and I often didn't have a (clean) shawl/cardigan to go with the dress. So I didn't have a choice but to wear these dresses that I had been storing in my closet for that special day, or until I found a sweater that matched perfectly to cover my arms. But you know the craziest part of it all? Once I started wearing my short dresses, or the ones WITHOUT a cardigan. Holy sca

Well, it is a good old Tuesday night and I can't sleep... What better way to spend my time than writing in my blog. It has been a while!! This one is going to be about love. I am not sure exactly what direction I am headed but sometimes the best creations have no plan! ;) You know you always hear that you will never love anyone as much as your first love, or never fully immerse yourself into a relationship after your first heartbreak. I think that those thoughts are partially true... I know for a fact that my next relationship will be entered with much more caution than my first one was. I didn't know what it felt like to have my heart broken, to be hurt that much... I dove in head first 100% of my heart and I had no trust issues, no problems, and it was good.  It was exactly what a first relationship should be like, I was happy. But like all relationships, the honeymoon stage ends and problems begin to arise. Now I am definitely not playing the victim in the problems departm